“Lazy-Girl Jobs”: This Is Not the Revolution We’re Looking For
Be careful the term you coin. It may stick and then we’re all stuck.
The Women Will Not Be Wearing The Company Polo Shirt
No woman needs to network looking like they work at Walmart.
The Dangerous Reality of Midlife Women and Eating Disorders
We’re 50 going on 15. Only we have more to lose. Literally.
Is It Time For Women to Go on a Domestic Strike?
If we got paid for this work, we wouldn't want to work here.
How I Manage to Infuriate Incels with Wild Success
I have a one-step process that seems to work 100% of the time.
Midlife Women, I’m Going to Need You to Wear a Two-Piece
We are going to stand defiantly together, do you hear me?
Vanessa Torre connects with readers about the challenges, frustrations, and joys of modern life
Whether tackling the subjects of dating and singlehood, navigating change and overcoming obstacles, or gender roles and societal expectations, Vanessa’s personal and insightful reflections help readers better understand themselves and the world around them.
Her essays on Medium reach more than 9,000 followers each week. Her work has been published in dozens of media outlets, including Business Insider, Thought Catalog, GEN Magazine, P.S. I Love You, MamaMia, Scary Mommy, UrbanMatter, The Startup, NewsBreak, and Your Tango. She’s been profiled in Shoutout Arizona, Voyage Phoenix, and The Entertainer Magazine for her accomplishments as a creative entrepreneur.
Vanessa publishes two Substack newsletters: Meeting in the Middle, in which she reflects on her experiences dating at middle age and offers practical advice for anyone navigating singlehood and dating at midlife; and Late to My Own Party, a newsletter exploring late diagnosis ADHD.
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